Thursday, May 17, 2012

radical relationships part 2


relationship with God

Today we celebrate the holiday that is called Easter.  Thus, this morning I am going to preach about Jesus Christ who is the reason for season.  But this message will also be part 2 of our current series radical relationships.  Last week I drove home the point that we are relational beings created for relationships and life revolves around relationships.

Today I want to hone in on THE relationship of relationships: our relationship with God through Jesus Christ which is a pretty radical relationship.

Let me begin by explaining who it is that we are talking about here when I say Jesus Christ.  For years I thought that Christ was Jesus’ last name.  Eventually I realized that Christ is actually a title, which comes from a Greek word that means “anointed one” and corresponds to the Hebrew word messiah.  Much like we use the term “Dr” as a title, we use the term Christ as a title.  That is why at times the Scriptures say Christ Jesus instead of Jesus Christ.  Jesus is the Christ.  He is the messiah.  He is the anointed one of God.

The coming of the anointed one wasn’t a surprise.  When Jesus showed up on the scene, people didn’t say, “A messiah.  I didn’t know God was going to do that!  What a neat surprise.”

For hundreds of years the nation of Israel had been the covenant community of God, his special, chosen people who belonged to Him.  God would send messengers known as prophets to his people Israel to speak to them on His behalf.  In some of their messages to the people, they foretold a Messiah who God would send to bring salvation to his people and restore them.  So the idea of a coming messiah was not foreign to God’s people; they expected such a one.  The writings of these prophets were incorporated into their holy scriptures and are included in what we call the Bible today (Isaiah – Malachi).  In those writings, we can see that the time they expected the messiah is the very time when he arrived on the scene which was about 2000 years ago.

It all began with a virgin named Mary who was with child.  She was told by an angel that the child was conceived by the Holy Spirit and that she was to give him the name Jesus because he would save his people from their sins.  This Jesus grew in wisdom and in favor with God and man.  When he was about 30 years old he began his public ministry in which he traveled throughout the land performing miraculous wonders.  He turned water to wine.  He walked on water.  He fed thousands with only a few fish and loaves.  He drove out demons, healed the sick, raised the dead.  He taught the people in parables and spoke with wisdom and authority, gathering a large following.

His most astonishing declarations were those that displayed his divinity.  In John 8:58 and John 10:30.  The religious leaders were growing jealous and angry and plotted to kill him. So the night of the Passover meal they had arranged for him to be handed over to the authorities that he might be put to death.

Picking up the story in Matt 27:27-31  27 Then the governor’s soldiers took Jesus into the Praetorium and gathered the whole company of soldiers around him. 28 They stripped him and put a scarlet robe on him, 29 and then twisted together a crown of thorns and set it on his head. They put a staff in his right hand and knelt in front of him and mocked him. “Hail, king of the Jews!” they said. 30 They spit on him, and took the staff and struck him on the head again and again. 31 After they had mocked him, they took off the robe and put his own clothes on him. Then they led him away to crucify him.

Picture with me the crown of thorns pressed into his head puncturing his skin, so that blood flowed out.  Picture his wounded back torn open from being beaten.  Picture this wounded Jesus carrying a heavy cross through the dusty streets of Judea, carrying that instrument upon which he would die.  Picture nails being pounded into his hands and his feet and the blood flowing forth. 

The cross is erected.  Now picture this Jesus hanging from the cross, finding it difficult to breathe.  And finally, He breathes his last breath and gives up his spirit.  The Jews, who are very religious and very concerned with keeping the letter of the Law don’t want to have dead bodies hanging on crosses on the Sabbath, so they want to speed up the process and ensure that the 3 criminals are indeed dead.  So they have their legs broken.  This way they cannot stand up to breathe.  They will suffocate and die sooner.  They come to Jesus and find that he already seems to be dead.  So they thrust a spear into his side.  Out flows blood and water.  They take the men down and prepare them for the grave. 

I know you’re into the story now.  But let me interrupt it and point out something to you.  At this point in the story Jesus is dead.  This Jesus who was in an intimate relationship with the disciples for three years was now dead.  Their relationship is now over. 

It’s very difficult to have a relationship with a dead person.  I have had loved ones die.  You probably have too.  At this point, our relationships with them are over.  That is why marriage vows are intact until death do us part.  At the point of death the relationship is over.  You can’t exactly have a relationship with a dead person. 

If Jesus died, if Jesus is still dead, then it is silly for me to be talking this morning about a relationship with Jesus – a relationship with a dead man.  What makes this morning’s message not silly is that though Jesus died, Jesus isn’t dead.  On the third day, Jesus rose from the dead.  He conquered the grave.  Jesus is alive.  That’s what we are celebrating this morning: the resurrection of Jesus Christ.

Last week I stated that life revolves around relationships.  Today I want to take that a step further and state that the life that is truly life revolves around the relationship of relationships. 

More explicitly stated, the abundant life, the eternal life revolves around and begins in our relationship with God and that is made possible only through Jesus Christ, our risen Lord.       1 Tim 2:5 there is one mediator between God and man, the man Jesus Christ who gave his life as a ransom for all men (and women).  It is through Jesus that we can know and have relationship with God – he is the only mediator; we go through Him. 

Jesus himself stated in John 14:6 I am the way, the truth and the life.  No one comes to the father (God) except through me.  Jesus is the only way to God.

Acts 4:12 Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to men by which we must be saved.  It is through Jesus that we can know and have relationship and fellowship with God.  Jesus’ name is the only name.

Jesus said in John 10:10 The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.  Your version may say and to have it more abundantly.  It is through Jesus that we have abundant life.  This speaks to quality of life.  Not just having things work out in your favor, not just having more things, but having God, the greatest treasure of all.  Jesus is the source of abundant life.

Jesus prays in John 17:1-3 “Father, the hour has come; glorify Your Son, that the Son may glorify You, 2 even as You gave Him authority over all flesh, that to all whom You have given Him, He may give eternal life. 3 This is eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom You have sent.

I believe this eternal life Jesus mentions also speaks of quality of life, but I’m also convinced that it speaks of quantity of life.  He defines eternal life as knowing God and His son Jesus and I believe this knowing God begins on earth here and now, and it continues beyond the grave and into eternity.

This abundant life, this life to the full, this eternal life is also the life that is truly life.

1 Timothy 6:19  In this way they will lay up treasure for themselves as a firm foundation for the coming age, so that they may take hold of the life that is truly life.

The life that is truly life revolves around and begins with the relationship of relationships namely, our relationship with God made possible through Jesus Christ, our risen Lord.      

The Bible teaches that you can be alive, ie walking around with a pulse, but dead at the same time.  In other words, you can be physically alive but spiritually dead.  Only in Christ are we brought from a state of spiritual death to spiritual life.  We, who put our faith in Christ, participate in his death, burial and resurrection and we go from spiritual death to spiritual life.  And I’m convinced that apart from spiritual life, physical life is meaningless.

Additionally, I’m not simply condoning a view that says I want to go to heaven some day, so I’ll say a prayer and accept Jesus into my heart.  I’m condoning a view that values Jesus and says that the only reason heaven is worth attending, is God’s presence.

So again, the life that is truly life revolves around the relationship of relationships, namely our relationship with God made possible through Jesus Christ, our risen Lord.

Again, the reason we can have relationship with Jesus is because Jesus didn’t stay dead.  He rose from the dead, he conquered the grave.  Jesus is alive!

It is easy to grasp human relationships because we can see them, touch them, hear and smell them.  When it comes to having a relationship with Jesus that may not be so easy to grasp since we cannot with physical eyes see him, or with physical hands touch him and with physical ears hear him.

We are talking about a relationship with a Jesus who is unseen.  That takes faith.  In fact, one of the 12 apostles, Thomas, doubted until he saw and touched Jesus with physical eyes and hands.  Jesus told him in John 20:29 “Because you have seen me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed.”  Though you have not seen, believe with me, and be blessed.

A relationship with God is attained through faith in the risen Jesus Christ and that begins with having eyes to see and ears to hear.  Jesus said of his unbelieving contemporaries, In them is fulfilled the prophecy of Isaiah: “‘You will be ever hearing but never understanding; you will be ever seeing but never perceiving.”

They had physical eyes with which they saw him.  They had physical ears which heard the words that came out of his mouth.  But they lacked the ability to perceive Him for who he was and to fully understand what he was saying.  To use Paul’s words in Ephesians 1 the eyes of their hearts needed to be enlightened. 

May God open the eyes of our hearts that we may see him for who he is, not just a wise man, not just a prophet, but as the Christ, as the Son of God and more than that, as God in the flesh who took our sins upon himself to reconcile us to Him for the purpose of a radical relationship.

That relationship is initiated by grace through faith.  How is it nurtured?

I’d like to share with you three basics for nurturing a radical relationship with God through Jesus Christ.  These should come as no surprise to you as these are basic; these are indeed fundamentals:

1.        Prayer

2.       Fellowship with the Body of Christ

3.       Reading the Bible

PRAYER is the first and most essential ingredient in nurturing a radical relationship with God.  Just as communication is essential for any human relationship it is essential in our relationship with God.

We recently spent several weeks in a sermon series on prayer in which we defined prayer as conversation with God.  Conversation is THE primary way to nurture any relationship.

Paul encourages believers in 1 Thess 5:17 pray continually (pray without ceasing).

We can pray anytime, anywhere.  It doesn’t have to be audible; we can do it in the quiet of our heart.  At work, at school, in traffic.

Prayer is the most essential ingredient in nurturing a radical relationship with God.

FELLOWSHIP WITH THOSE IN THE BODY OF CHRIST

A radical relationship with God is nurtured through fellowship with other believers.

To put a direction to it, our horizontal relationships are directly linked to our vertical relationship.  God is not literally “up” since He is omnipresent, but I think the metaphor helps convey the reality since we tend to think in those kinds of terms.

The Bible uses the metaphor of the human body to describe the church, whereas Christ is the head.  In a sense, we as members of His body are the hands and feet of Christ.  In a sense, fellowship with those in the Body of Christ is fellowship with Christ. 

Loving those in the Body of Christ is loving Christ.

Jesus tells his disciples In Matt 25 34 “Then the King (Jesus) will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world.35 For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, 36 I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’

   37 “Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? 38 When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 39 When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’

   40 “The King will reply, ‘I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.’  (the precept there is that serving those in the body of Christ is in fact serving Christ)

   41 “Then he will say to those on his left, ‘Depart from me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. 42 For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, 43 I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me.’

   44 “They also will answer, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help you?’

   45 “He will reply, ‘I tell you the truth, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.’

   46 “Then they will go away to eternal punishment, but the righteous to eternal life.”

Again, our horizontal relationships are directly linked to our vertical relationship.  When we feed, clothe, and visit those in the Body of Christ, we feed, clothe and visit Christ.  When we love and bless and do good to fellow believers, we love and bless and do good to Christ. 

The health of our relationship with God is in large part dictated by the health of our relationship with people.

I don’t know that we can truly say, “My relationship with God is great, but my relationships with people are not.”  They are directly connected.

1 Pet 3:7  Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers. 

It seems that Peter is here saying that a man’s relationship with his spouse directly affects his relationship with God.  It seems that the implication is that if he isn’t treating her with consideration and respect, it will hinder his prayers.  Our relationship with people directly affects our relationship with God. 

Peter continues in the text and when we look at the context, it seems to further that precept and broaden it beyond our spouses.

8 Finally, all of you, live in harmony with one another (how to treat people – relational); be sympathetic, love as brothers, be compassionate and humble. 9 Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing. 10 For, “Whoever would love life and see good days must keep his tongue from evil and his lips from deceitful speech. 11 He must turn from evil and do good; he must seek peace and pursue it. 12 For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous and his ears are attentive to their prayer, but the face of the Lord is against those who do evil.” (Psalm 34:12-16)

Again, look at the exhortation he gives on how to treat other people (live in harmony, be sympathetic, love as brothers, be compassionate and humble, bless, keep tongue from deceitful speech, seek peace and pursue it – this is all relational).  Then look how he follows that: the ears of the Lord are attentive to the prayers of the righteous, but the face of the Lord is against those who do evil.  There is a sense in which one’s prayer life is affected by the way he interacts with people.

The scripture says, his ear is attentive to the prayers of the righteous.  Granted, for those of us in Christ, we have a righteous standing before God, but this context seems to speak not to a standing before God, but to a way of living, a way of treating others with whom we are in relationship.

The state of our human relationships affects our prayer life.  If there are issues in our horizontal relationship it directly affects our vertical relationship.

If God calls us to love our neighbor as ourselves and we are not doing that, how can we come before our heavenly Father and petition Him? 

We have to, in a sense, say “God, I know that you have called me to be gracious, forgiving, and loving and to allow no bitterness to take root, but I’m not really into that right now, by the way, while I have your ear, will you grant the following requests?”

Our vertical relationship is directly connected to and affected by our horizontal relationships.  To put it another way: Our relationship with God is affected by our relationship with His children.

I’ll just tell you right now, if I see someone mistreating my children, treating them poorly, that individual is putting himself at odds with me.  We are still friends, I forgive him, but he has impacted our relationship in a negative way.  One way to show love to me, one way to bless me is to show love to and bless my children.  Those of you who work in our children’s ministry and pour into my children and teach them in the Lord and love them, you are essentially blessing me and I appreciate that.  THANK YOU!

I believe the same is true of God and his children.  Let us love and bless his children, treating them with kindness, compassion, mercy and humility as that is showing love to and blessing God and ultimately nurturing a radical relationship with him because our horizontal relationships are directly connected to our vertical relationship.

READING THE BIBLE

Finally, the last means of maintaining radical relationship with God is through spending time reading the Bible.  Contained in the Bible is God’s revelation of Himself.  We learn so much about God, his character and his dealings with mankind by spending time in the bible.

For those who are visiting, for those who don’t spend a whole lot of time with us, I want to encourage you to strive to spend time reading the Bible.

However, if you consider yourself a member of this church, chances are, this is not necessarily a problem for you.  Here at NCF we spend a lot of our time together in the Bible, seeking to rightly divide the word of truth that we may rightly apply it, which is a good thing. 

I feel compelled to issue a caution when it comes to the Bible.  This will resemble the caution that I issued last week.  Last week I reminded you that phones were originally created for talking, for nurturing relationships through communication with other people.  That was their ultimate purpose and design.  However, currently, our phones are equipped with all kinds of gadgets, games and forms of entertainment.  There is nothing wrong with playing games on our phones, watching movies or youtube on our phone, but those are secondary.  The problem lies in letting those secondary tasks eclipse relational encounters, when we get so distracted by those entertaining aspects of our phone that we neglect people because people and relationships should take priority.

The same is true of the Bible.  The primary purpose of the Bible, I believe is for better knowing God.  There are secondary and tertiary purposes, such as gaining a knowledge of theology and doctrine, learning facts about history.  Those are good things and there is nothing wrong with educating ourselves.  But let’s not forget the ultimate purpose: knowing God.  Not just knowing about God, but knowing HIM.

Envision with me a man who served in the military received several letters from his wife while he was deployed overseas.  He read them over and over because he loved his wife and reading these letters gave him insight into who she was and how he may better know and love and serve her.  When his deployment was over and he returned home to his wife, he would retreat to his bedroom and spend hours reading those letters.  She would go into the bedroom to be with him but he would simply keep reading them essentially neglecting her presence.  She would nudge him gently and say “ahem.”  He would respond, “Can’t you see that I’m busy reading these letters from you so that I can better know and love and serve you?”  The natural response to that is, “Hello.  I’m right here.  You can talk to me.  You can interact with me and fellowship with me.”

This man’s perspective was skewed.  He began on the right track by reading these letters as a means to an end, but reading the letters became the end in themselves.

Bible study is so important for us as believers, but if we aren’t careful, we will see bible study as the end in itself rather than a means to an end.  We can get so focused on learning and knowing the truth in the Bible that we lose focus on the one who said “I am the truth.”

Reading and studying the bible is not the end in itself, but the means to an end.  Knowing God and having a radical relationship with Him is the end; reading and studying the bible is simply the means to that end.

So to recap:

We are relational beings created for relationships.  Life revolves around relationships.

The life that is truly life revolves around the relationship of relationships namely our relationship with God through Jesus Christ our risen lord.  Yes, this Jesus was put to death on a cross, but he didn’t stay dead.  That is what makes this relationship possible.  Jesus is alive.  Let us rejoice in that today as we celebrate his resurrection and enjoy radical relationships, not only horizontal relationships, but a vertical relationship. 

Let us pursue and enjoy a radical relationship with God through Jesus Christ.  We can nurture that relationship through prayer, fellowship with the Body of Christ, and spending time in the Bible, but let us not neglect devotional reading of the Word in order to enhance that relationship.  Because reading the Bible is not the end in itself, but a means to an end and that end is a radical relationship with our Creator made possible through our risen Lord Jesus Christ.  Let’s pray.

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